Envy

There’s No Heaven That Envy Can’t Turn into Hell

Less Visible

A couple of years ago, I preached a sermon on envy from Psalm 73, which is all about envy. I’d never really thought very much about the sin of envy before, and it honestly frightened me just how pervasive and how destructive this sin is. Two things stood out to me.

One is that envy is less visible than other sins. Many things that we’re doing, if it’s a sin, we are aware of the effect that it’s having upon us to some extent, and we’re aware that it is happening. If we’re stealing from someone, we’re usually aware of that.

But envy is one of those sins that hides and lurks. And so many times, especially in a social media age, we can be experiencing envy that’s robbing our joy, and yet we’re not even aware that we’re struggling with the sin of envy. So it’s a more hidden sin.

More Miserable

But secondly, it’s not just less visible, it’s also more miserable. The more I thought about this, the more it was terrifying to think about where envy can take you as it’s sort of eating away at your joy. If you think of the glass as half-empty or half-full analogy, one way to think about envy is that it puts your focus upon the glass as half-empty.

You’re saying, Well, I may have this, but that other person has this. Thomas Aquinas defined envy as sorrow for another’s good. So it’s almost the exact opposite of love for charity, which is when love says, I’m happy when you’re happy, and I’m sad when you’re sad. That’s love. Envy is the opposite.

Envy says, I’m sad when you’re happy, and I’m happy when you’re sad. And to envy another person is miserable for both you and that person. And there’s really nothing that you have that is good in your life that envy cannot rob the joy out of. If you win the lottery, envy can come along and say, Well, you won the lottery, but look how much you had to pay in taxes. And that person over there still has more money than you. If you have a great job, there’s always someone out there that has a better job. Or you can say, Well, I may have the best job in the world, but that other person has more time for vacation than I do. No matter what you get to, there’s always something.

Envy Is Possible Everywhere

Derek Kidner, in his commentary on Psalm 73, talks about how the sin of envy is kind of rolled in with what’s going on in Genesis 3, because the serpent comes along and says, Well, yeah, you may be in paradise, but you’re not God.

And even there, even when surrounded in a perfect paradise, the sin of envy is possible. In fact. there’s no heaven that envy cannot turn into hell. Because no matter what you have, you can always say, Yeah, but I don’t have that. I’m not God.

Gratitude is such a powerful tool that we have to fight against envy in our lives.

I think envy’s right in there with pride as very close to the very heart of all sin. So it is helpful to draw our attention to envy and to consider, Where may I be struggling with envy? And it’s a wonderful thing, too, as we soak our hearts in the love of Jesus, we let that go. We fill our heart. The antidote that I have found so helpful is gratitude.

If envy focuses on the glass as half-empty, focus instead your attention on the blessings in your life. In social media you may say, Well, I don’t have the kind of influence that that person has. I don’t have the kind of friends that that person has. But let me be so grateful for every bit that I do have. Let my focus be there. Let me just try to steward what I do have.

Turn toward Gratitude

When you’re tempted to think about your neighbor or your friend who has something you don’t have, recall your focus upon the blessings in your life. Practice intentional gratitude. As you’re driving to work in the morning, you have time to think. Just recount. This is a practice I started doing a couple of years ago.

Whenever I’m in my car, I just start counting my blessings. And what’s always amazing is how many there are and how easy it is to overlook them.

That glass is very half full. I have so many things to be grateful for. Most of us do. We can just start with the air we’re breathing. Every breath is a gift from God. And then we just go through and there’s so much to be grateful for. And gratitude is such a powerful tool that we have to fight against envy in our lives.

by: Gavin Ortlund

Gavin Ortlund is the author of Humility: The Joy of Self-Forgetfulness.

Gavin Ortlund (PhD, Fuller Theological Seminary) serves as senior pastor of First Baptist Church of Ojai in Ojai, California. He is the author of several books and runs the popular YouTube channel Truth Unites. Gavin and his wife, Esther, have five children.

Psalm 73

A psalm of Asaph.

1 Surely God is good to Israel, to those who are pure in heart.

2 But as for me, my feet had almost slipped; I had nearly lost my foothold. 3 For I envied the arrogant when I saw the prosperity of the wicked.

4 They have no struggles; their bodies are healthy and strong.[a] 5 They are free from common human burdens; they are not plagued by human ills. 6 Therefore pride is their necklace; they clothe themselves with violence. 7 From their callous hearts comes iniquity[b]; their evil imaginations have no limits. 8 They scoff, and speak with malice; with arrogance they threaten oppression. 9 Their mouths lay claim to heaven, and their tongues take possession of the earth. 10 Therefore their people turn to them and drink up waters in abundance.[c] 11 They say, “How would God know? Does the Most High know anything?”

12 This is what the wicked are like— always free of care, they go on amassing wealth.

13 Surely in vain I have kept my heart pure and have washed my hands in innocence. 14 All day long I have been afflicted, and every morning brings new punishments.

15 If I had spoken out like that, I would have betrayed your children. 16 When I tried to understand all this, it troubled me deeply 17 till I entered the sanctuary of God; then I understood their final destiny.

18 Surely you place them on slippery ground; you cast them down to ruin. 19 How suddenly are they destroyed, completely swept away by terrors! 20 They are like a dream when one awakes; when you arise, Lord, you will despise them as fantasies.

21 When my heart was grieved and my spirit embittered, 22 I was senseless and ignorant; I was a brute beast before you.

23 Yet I am always with you; you hold me by my right hand. 24 You guide me with your counsel, and afterward you will take me into glory. 25 Whom have I in heaven but you? And earth has nothing I desire besides you. 26 My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.

27 Those who are far from you will perish; you destroy all who are unfaithful to you. 28 But as for me, it is good to be near God. I have made the Sovereign Lord my refuge; I will tell of all your deeds.

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